Whether it is baby number 1 or 6, I think all mummies to be try to educate themselves the very best they can. The world is constantly evolving and therefore the world of parenting changes rapidly in line with that. From the very first midwife appointment we are given all sorts of resources to read and digest. I also enjoyed doing my own research on various topics from the likes of breastfeeding to vegetarian pregnancy and weaning.
This being said, I
have still managed to get to 5 months postpartum and think to myself “I wish I
had of known that!” about a handful of different topics. My blog seems the
perfect platform to share my findings; after all they may be of help to someone
else...
Postpartum Hair Loss
Now I did know that
during pregnancy the hair thickens in response to the hormones and obviously
some of that will naturally shed following birth but I was not prepared to lose
the amount I did. I was losing hair whilst brushing, washing, styling, you name
it - it was fur ball city for a good few weeks. The worst part? I went bald in
the temple area on both sides of my head! Yes bald! Mum life is fabulous
right?!
Luckily after
feeling rather conscious of my two new bald spots the hair has started to grow
back. This is amazing news although I feel I have swapped the bald eagle look
for a newly sprouting alfalfa resemblance. Hair loss may not affect everyone,
surprisingly though since I have opened up about it with friends it turns out
it has happened to more people I know than I had realised. It’s something I wish
I’d have been prepared for as it did come as a shock. Pesky hormones!
Postpartum Migraines
A killer. Not what
you need when you are already physically and mentally exhausted post birth of
your little baby.
I started getting frequent migraines following the birth of Oliver around 4 weeks postpartum. I don’t suffer with headaches or migraines usually, I’ve been very lucky in that respect, so for me to be getting regular ones was definitely out of character.
Due to exclusively
breastfeeding O and being anti taking medication, I was trying to manage the
migraines by plodding on but I wasn’t succeeding. I told my mother in law who
asked if I was taking a magnesium supplement as she had previously read an
article on the association between low magnesium and migraines. Admittedly I
wasn’t. I was however still taking my pregnancy vitamins as recommended by my
health visitor.
Back at home I
decided to look at the magnesium content in my pregnancy vitamin - it was
present but not as high as a standalone magnesium supplement. I decided to take
an additional supplement for a week to boost my level of the mineral and I also
opted for the breastfeeding postnatal vitamins to try and ensure my needs and
the babies were being met.
A week later and my
headaches had gone. I shared what I’d found with my health visitor when she
visited and she was equally amazed. She specialises in post birth care and
although she was fully aware of postpartum migraines and headaches even she
hadn’t thought of using vitamins to aid recovery.
Whilst reading
various sources I realised something that naively I hadn’t thought of before.
When breastfeeding a baby will take from the mother whatever nutrients they
need. This commonly leaves the mother deficient in various vitamins and
minerals which can have knock on effects. At six weeks old, baby and mother
attend a check with their GP and if all is well with both they are discharged.
I do wonder, should breastfeeding mothers take it on themselves to get a
regular vitamin and mineral check? Every Mum wants their milk to be as
nutritious for their baby as possible and it is important that they can feel their best too!
I found reading
about this subject fascinating. One particular article that is interesting is:
Diastasis Recti
Thank goodness for
YouTube. Seriously!
I not only found out about but also recovered the separation in my abdomen thanks to YouTube.
What even is
diastasis recti you may be wondering? Diastasis recti is a weakening of the
abdominal walls in the centre of the abdomen due to pregnancy hormones and the
weight of a baby. Basically a weakening in the tension of the muscle fibres. Not everyone will
experience this however many will.
I watch Anna
Saccone’s vlogs - yes YouTube is my guilty pleasure. Anna had her 4th baby
around a week before I had baby O so I found it great to watch her postpartum
updates. Although I was subscribed to various baby websites that send you an
email with weekly baby progress advice it was good to watch and see how someone
else with a baby the same age was getting on. Fairly early on in the vlogs Anna
identified her diastasis recti and whilst listening I thought this was maybe
something I was experiencing.
When I had baby
number one my tummy snapped back within 7 days (I know, I know - sickening..
maybe it was down to me being only just an adult myself?!) However this time
with baby number two I felt my tummy was taking longer to return to its former
self. I want to say here that I have been very lucky regarding my postpartum
body. Some people would have been more than satisfied with how I was but to me, my stomach felt weak. I could sense that nothing was being supported as well as before.
Although I was back to my pre-baby weight my tummy certainly didn't feel as
taught.
To confirm my query
I asked my GP when Oliver and I had our 6 week check and she agreed that I had
a two/ three finger separation. Basically this meant that when I lay down and
tilted my pelvis to tense my abdomen I could place two/three fingers easily in
between either side of my ab walls! The GP told me that there was nothing available
on the NHS to solve this problem as it was not classed as serious however, I could seek help from a physiotherapist or
find some simple correction exercises online. Whilst it was not severe, she did
say it was something I should focus on correcting as if I didn’t it could lead to the
problem worsening in any future pregnancies or lead to other problems like
lower back pain later in life.
This is why the
vlogs have and continue to majorly help. Anna and her PT, began a postpartum diastasis recti
healing workout series. The initial workout was super gentle and as healing has progressed the
series has since built up to now being a fairly intense HIIT session. Link to initial workout here > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eS0X1mo66w&t=2s
The videos have
been a god send. With a new baby that I am exclusively breastfeeding I don’t
have the chance to get to a gym. I needed a solution that worked around family
and this was it. I can now workout at home, at any convenient time. By working through the series at my own pace I have completely healed my
separation and actually feel stronger than I ever have. Now when I lay down and
tilt my pelvis it is clear that the muscles have completely stitched back
together - no gap present!
I have committed
myself to these workouts - I feel I need to put this out there. I wouldn't lie and say it happened easily over night. I’ve been doing
a video 2/3 times over 4/5 times a week alongside walking around 4.5 miles 5/6
days a week. I hate driving so if I can walk I will. I started with the first
easiest routine when Oliver was 7 weeks old and I had been cleared by the GP
and health visitor as safe to exercise again.
As always, I hope
this post will be of help to somebody! I have added a link to Anna’s first
workout video above and you can navigate to the harder ones from there. Please
comment with your thoughts/ tips below, I love hearing from you!
Bethany xx